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“点点事件”:不可忽略的“加害者”的声音

2018-8-1 11:33| 发布者: admin| 查看: 4378| 评论: 151|来自: MSN中文网

  米兔在中国的发展渐渐声势减弱,这似乎是意料之中的事,一开始我就看到了这场运动存在的力量真空的部分,这本是一场男女平权的运动,男性的支持声音却微弱。自从点点控诉前公司人事老郑性骚扰的事火出AGC圈,我听到了一声质询恍然惊醒:是否只要被说成性侵、性骚扰,就一律该跪下认错?对,原来在迅猛的米兔浪潮扑面而来的时候,男性群体成了潜在的“加害者”,一旦被说成“性骚扰”,便会遭遇无数声讨。即使是一起冤假错案,也有口难辨。老郑就是一个典型。

  点点指明公司领导老郑性骚扰自己,但疑点丛丛。点点除了自己的一面之词,展示出的所谓“实锤”却是一张被删改过的微信截图;老郑也并不是有权力倾轧点点的上级领导,他们不过是平级,点点把自己游戏总监的身份模糊成一个地位低的女员工;点点和老郑平时就是你来我往开玩笑的人,甚至自己在办公室群里爱开各种荤段子,却把老郑的话打成“性骚扰”,那自己戏称男性同事为“快男”、“秒射”之类的话难道不是性骚扰吗?至于公司里的二三十人为站自己而集体离职的说法更是拙劣,更加说明这是一场精心策划的“性骚扰”控告,醉翁之意不在酒啊。随着点点、后雨与前公司官博的一场你来我往的“出锤”之战渐渐偃旗息鼓,抽丝剥茧就可以发现,所谓性骚扰不过是点点后雨等人要与公司“撕逼”的噱头。


  更让人不寒而栗的是,点点平日里并不曾老郑交恶。她称老郑为“爸爸”,视老郑为“家里人”,请老郑给自己介绍男朋友,给自己的妈妈介绍工作,吃午饭也爱叫上老郑一起……但当她和她的背后团队需要一个绑架前公司的撕逼噱头时,老郑就成了那个倒霉蛋。


  点点控诉老郑性骚扰的如此轻易又突然,能不叫其他职场男性望而生畏吗?如果你的女同事要给你扣一顶性骚扰的帽子,那可太容易了。可一旦背上性骚扰的恶名,就很难洗脱了。尤其在性保守的中国文化环境中,无疑是要被钉在耻辱柱上的。这对老郑的事业、人际关系、家庭生活的影响不言而喻。 这一起“莫须有”的性骚扰之后,老郑该如何在办公司自处,又将面对怎样的“有色眼镜”。

  有句话用在“性骚扰”这件事上很恰切,“你不能又当运动员,又当裁判”。在判断一件事或者几句话是不是性骚扰的时候,往往都是女性(或者受害者)说了算,“我觉得这就是性骚扰”、“我不舒服这就是性骚扰”,“你这句话就是性骚扰”……但忽略了事情发生的上下语境和真实场景,更很少有人倾听所谓“加害者”的声音。女性可以主张自己受到了“性骚扰”,可以立即阻止你觉得“冒犯”的行为或者言语,可以曝光、报警,但判断是否有罪应该交给警察或者法律,而不是利用网络舆论判对方死刑。


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